November 4, 2014
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When trouble is brewing, it is important to have a safe place to turn for support, advice, and counsel. The trouble might be your own, or you might have trouble with one of your direct reports. Sometimes, it’s not possible to turn to your own manager for such support, or you might just want to talk your thoughts and ideas through with someone before involving your manager. Your first stop is often HR—but can you trust HR?
In most cases, yes. Most HR professionals get into this line of work with the best of intentions. HR is, after all, a helping function. It helps align organizational processes, systems, and culture to best achieve business goals. It helps surface and resolve conflict. It also helps managers become leaders.
Good HR work relies on a base of solid values, including collaboration, inclusion, integrity, and objectivity. The vast majority of HR professionals are capable of consistently managing confidentiality while providing a balanced perspective about the different approaches you could apply to your situation. The vast majority of HR professionals consciously seek to avoid using information in any way that can make people vulnerable.
All in all, you can trust most people in HR. That said, when human beings are involved, nothing is perfect.
Confidentiality Breaches in HR
You can trust HR to maintain confidentiality in most situations. However, there are three rare exceptions:
1. Legal Obligations
There are some situations that require HR to protect the interests of the company and its employees, even if you ask them not to share the information further. An example of this would be if you were to bring a claim of sexual harassment to your HR representative. Under these (and similar) situations, HR is required to investigate and resolve the claim. Experienced HR professionals typically articulate such requirements before they will agree to maintain confidentiality.
2. Inexperience and Human Error
Remember that while your HR support is likely trustworthy and on your side, they are also likely managing quite a bit of information across your organization. They are also human, and humanly imperfect. The more experienced your HR partner, the more skilled they are likely to be when juggling complex and conflicting information. How experienced is your HR partner? Is the information you share likely to put them in a compromising position? You may wish to weigh these factors before choosing to share. To most HR professionals, mistakes like these are incredibly painful because they represent a conflict with core values—and they represent the opposite of what we intended to do: Help.
3. The Catbert Effect
There are some mean people in the world, and occasionally they make their way into HR. People resembling Dilbert’s Catbert the Evil HR Director are very rare and, fortunately, they are easy to spot as their reputation usually precedes them. Their behavior has nothing to do with you and can be erratic and even a little scary. It is best to avoid them or deal with them as minimally as possible. If the generalist or HR business partner supporting you falls in this category, seek safe counsel elsewhere.
How to Build a Trusting Relationship with Your HR Partner
To build a trusting relationship with your HR partner, follow these easy steps:
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